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 Author: popsicle View Messages Posted By popsicle
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He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes
 
 Author: SDF_Bricks View Messages Posted By SDF_Bricks
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In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

May he rest in peace, and may those he leaves behind only think of the good memories.
He's in heaven now.
 Author: popsicle View Messages Posted By popsicle
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In Off Topic, SDF_Bricks writes:
  In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

May he rest in peace, and may those he leaves behind only think of the good memories.
He's in heaven now.

Bless you for giving deeper thought towards him.
 Author: KACL View Messages Posted By KACL
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In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

I am so sorry for your loss.
Karen
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In Off Topic, KACL writes:
  In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

I am so sorry for your loss.

You're very kind...

More important for us both Karen, is your expressed heartfelt concern, here.
Randy was someone well deserving any such an expression. Know that, and thanks
again
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Cory,

My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your brother.
Cherish the memories.

Johan
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In Off Topic, jbroman writes:
  Cory,

My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your brother.
Cherish the memories.

I consider myself the lucky one to have shared my life with his. Thanks, Johan
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So sad to hear that he has passed, my best wishes to you, the the rest of the
family and his friends.

May he be remembered forever.

Stuart





In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes
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In Off Topic, Stuart9 writes:
  So sad to hear that he has passed, my best wishes to you, the the rest of the
family and his friends.

May he be remembered forever.

Thank you, Stuart.

His family was devoted, and friends many.
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Sorry for your loss
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  Sorry for your loss

Thank you. Take care, leader of the pizza gang
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Sorry for your loss.

There is never a good time to lose anyone but when it happens around the holidays
it only makes it feel that much more.
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In Off Topic, BrickOutLoud writes:
  Sorry for your loss.

There is never a good time to lose anyone but when it happens around the holidays
it only makes it feel that much more.

That's something I've not considered until brought up by family. You
see it's always been Randy efforts, that brought family together for the
holidays. So, what now? Has been asked of me...
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In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

Your brother's soul will be always with you. prayers, amber
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In Off Topic, billamber writes:
  In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

Your brother's soul will be always with you. prayers, amber

I go to sleep hoping to meet up with him in my dreams, to say more. I awake disappointed,
only to try and reset my sleep, hopefully resetting my dreams. Before he departed
and after reconnecting with me to share his diagnosed fate, my dreams were filled
with our childhood experiences. Now, I can't seem to get them back.
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In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  In Off Topic, billamber writes:
  In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

Your brother's soul will be always with you. prayers, amber

I go to sleep hoping to meet up with him in my dreams, to say more. I awake disappointed,
only to try and reset my sleep, hopefully resetting my dreams. Before he departed
and after reconnecting with me to share his diagnosed fate, my dreams were filled
with our childhood experiences. Now, I can't seem to get them back.

They will return, right now your grief and mourning are in the way....time will
soften some of that and your fond memories will return...that's how it was
for me when I lost my son many years ago. peace
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In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

After helping his dad build a jacuzzi in his dad's beloved garden, they inaugurated
it their last project together, Randy and his youngest, Jacob. Btw, Jacob's
holding a game they played while enjoying the jacuzzi that day. They loved games,
my brother and his kids. Pic was taken 10 months before Randy's passing.

The second pic is of Randy and Jacob as a wee-one, taken at my brother's
favorite place on earth (after his garden) Morro Bay, CA. His ashes will be scattered
next month in two places: his garden and Morro Bay.

Didn't know this of my brother, that Morro Bay where he and I have had some
good times as young men, was so closely held to heart. Just leaned it. Even more
impactful, considering my brother and his youngest were avid travelers of the
world. Don't know of many places they haven't experienced. It's completely
understandable that his garden is a favorite, but learning that Morro Bay was
also, is hard hitting in a bitter sweet way.

-Cory
 


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In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  In Off Topic, popsicle writes:
  He has departed, my brother: https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1433100

Changed his name to Rand after some years in Sweden, but was ever Randy to me.
By either name, anyone would count themselves as lucky to have been a part of
his life.

A good man, good father and a good brother. Loved ones left behind are Karin
his wonderful wife, and three great kids; Jacob, Julia and Jesper. The pic was
taken 4 months ago.

A heartfelt appreciation to those here that cared about him, expressed or not.
I have my cherished memories, and look forward to hopefully catching up with
him when my time comes

After helping his dad build a jacuzzi in his dad's beloved garden, they inaugurated
it their last project together, Randy and his youngest, Jacob. Btw, Jacob's
holding a game they played while enjoying the jacuzzi that day. They loved games,
my brother and his kids. Pic was taken 10 months before Randy's passing.

The second pic is of Randy and Jacob as a wee-one, taken at my brother's
favorite place on earth (after his garden) Morro Bay, CA. His ashes will be scattered
next month in two places: his garden and Morro Bay.

Didn't know this of my brother, that Morro Bay where he and I have had some
good times as young men, was so closely held to heart. Just leaned it. Even more
impactful, considering my brother and his youngest were avid travelers of the
world. Don't know of many places they haven't experienced. It's completely
understandable that his garden is a favorite, but learning that Morro Bay was
also, is hard hitting in a bitter sweet way.
 
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Dear cory,

Im sorry to read this part of your and randy's story.

My back shivered reading this,and im sorry for the loss.

I truely hope plans for the holidays are made.
To keep you guys connected , not because of Randy but For Randy.

Sincere blessings.
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In Off Topic, Familybuild writes:
  Dear cory,

Im sorry to read this part of your and randy's story.

My back shivered reading this,and im sorry for the loss.

I truely hope plans for the holidays are made.
To keep you guys connected , not because of Randy but For Randy.

Sincere blessings.

Very thoughtful.

He changed his name sometime after moving to Sweden, to Rand. I remember talking
to him about it then, because I had a problem calling him by his newly chosen
name. He'd always be Randy to me, iow. He understood. But everyone else called
him Rand, even his kids.

He said it was after learning that "randy" had another meaning that
he didn't care to be called... Typical Randy But he was a fan of Alice
O'Connor (Ayn Rand) in college too, so I don't know. I alway thought
it was because it just sounds more serious without the "ee" sound, that
he changed it.